Today I wanted to talk about communication. I am not referring to facebook, text messages or emails.
In the past couple of weeks I have been having a hard time communicating with everyone in general. I let my emotions control me and my results were unpleasant to say the least. Now I am dealing with the issues and sadness I caused. Over that I have ruined friendships as well as hurt the ones I love the most. I have noticed that when I want to talk to anyone they prefer to txt. For me I enjoy txting when its all fun and games, lately that hasn’t been the case. While txting information that is important it can either be, taken to seriously or not serious enough. Txt message is hard to understand most of the time because we cannot connect to who we are talking to. By this I mean we can not hear their voice, laugh or listen properly. I have been thinking about this all night. How can we communicate if we didn’t have words? Is love our key to communication? If so I am going to give it a try.
The power of mastering the skill of communication is incredible. Once we have mastered this we can connect in an easier way. It brought me to this quote. “The most important things are the hardest to say, because words diminish them.”- Stephen King. This made me think, do words diminish what we are saying? If they do what is the best way to connect one on one. I came up with a few ideas. When I want to communicate with people I love I use laughter, hugs and tears. Is that a way to communicate through our emotions, through our soul? Yes it is! I also think my soul is the deepest way to connect to someone. I am challenging myself to carry out a full conversation with the ones I love who are close in area. For those who are farther I will be calling them for now. I think the only way to communicate in a deep way is through the soul.
I challenge you to pick one person either this week or tonight to communicate with. You don’t have to pick or think of something to “talk about” that’s not the point. I ask that you find a way to connect with them deeply, eye to eye heart to heart or even heart to heart over the phone. I am going to also be doing this. I get to heal my relationship’s and I know this will be the best way for me to do it. I would love to hear your results! I will be sharing mine in my next blog. Tomorrow morning I will go into the depths of communicating with my soul. If you have specific questions for me please message me on Facebook, I will post the answers here. Enjoy friends! This is an open door, once you pass through the threshold blessings await you.
Until tomorrow!
Love you all!
Jules
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