Tonight I wanted to share my "list". A Friend asked me other day what I am looking for in a life partner. I jokingly said, Tall, dark and handsome. She didn't think that was very amusing. I was asked to go home and write my list. So I did it and here it is.
Obviously I am looking for a tall dark and handsome, but looks are not everything. I am searching for my life partner, to be put simply.
I thought about all the things I want in my life, I thought how I would want that special someone in my life. Here is what I came up with.
The first thing that came to my mind was a connection.
I am not only talking about and intimate connection but a heart and soul connection. I would like us to be able to know what the other is feeling/thinking, we will be open and communicate in many ways.
One of the next things that crossed my mind was having children. I want to have that perfect man that will be the most amazing husband and father. I want to share the joys of being a parent, crazy pregnancy cravings, first loose tooth, dance recitals and high school graduations with that perfect man. I am crazy baby hungry right now.. again.. but I realize that I want to wait and have my child(ren) with the one I want to spend my life with. Not saying that single parents are not amazing because they are!! My mom was a single parent.. she did a fabulous job with 5 kids! I believe that starting a family is sacred. You are bringing a new life into this world and that is amazing! I want to be able to give my child the best possible so I will wait a couple years. :)
I really am aching to have someone who will put me first. I have had a big lack of that, now it is time to change. I will never again put up with that madness of being put behind everyone else. I want to have what I say have a big impression on the situation. Not saying I want to control it, but I would like to have some input. I want to have a family that loves me and welcomes me like I would love and welcome them. This was a big jump for me. I deserve the best, I deserve to have a man in my life who puts me first and sticks up for me. If you want me in your life you will treat me with the highest respect and I will treat you with the same. A relationship is a very unique treasure and you should do everything you can to protect and keep it.
I want someone who is set in who they are and what they want in life. I am looking for someone who has immense drive in life and know exactly where they are going. I thrive off of personal power, if you want to be in my life you have to have that drive. I know where I am going, yes I have my speed bumps along the way but I keep going. :)
Along with all of that I want someone who has immense compassion for others, love, respect, gratitude, inner peace and wisdom.
I don't believe I will be walking up to everyman in this world and say.. " Sorry you don't have enough love or compassion for me.. goodbye". Haha I believe my perfect man will have all of that and more. I am excited to have him in my life <3
A girl can dream right? :)
Until tomorrow
Jules
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