Thursday, July 7, 2011

Im not lucky, Im blessed (July 2nd blog post)

"May there always be angels to watch over you,
to guide you each step of the way,
to guide you and keep you safe from all harm"
Sleepsong, Secret Garden

I am learning, I am at peace and I am strong. The last couple weeks I have been pushing myself through what felt like hell. I had my moments of feeling anything but strong, looking back I realize I was strong and I am strong. My strength will support me in this jump. I would like to share a part of my soul and heart with you all tonight.

Through out this split I have learned so much about myself, life, true friends and love to name a few. In my heart I love Brandon very much, he is an amazing being. Right now I am focusing on my life and where I want to go. Everyday the pain and hurt slips more away. I want to remember that part of my life as a beautiful relationship and valuable life lesson. I have learned so much being with Brandon and moving out and finding my own personality. 

Recently I have opened my eyes and accepted what I want in a relationship and what I don't want. I now realize this is my life and I can make it however I choose. I am choosing happiness, love, friendship and peace. I am here to touch many lives as well as make this world a happier place to be. I am not exactly clear on what my "big way" to do it is, I realize everyday I can make a difference. I frequently find myself, leaving sweet notes, donating time and money, assisting the veterans here in town as well as the simple opening door and helping load groceries. I believe life is about happiness and giving to others. When I give unconditionally to others that comes back to me in buckets.

I am working hard physically mentally and emotionally on reaching my goals. I apologize for not posting my blogs every night. I have been working 14+ hour days and attempting to sleep and unpack. Thanks to my mom I have clean clothes, 10+ unpacked boxes as well as being fed everyday. She is the best! Going through this opened my life to how blessed I really am, how many people love and care for me and what I want in life. Instead of focusing on the past and what I didn't/don't want, I focus on everything I deserve and how I am going to create it.

I am in the perfect place right now physically and emotionally, even tho I sometimes feel I am going to die in this small town. Ha ha. I realize by being here I have family close and a job. With these and my tools I am building my life how I want it. I am so excited to get all my things together and organized. I am on a beautiful path and I am loving my life!

I love you!!

Good night

Jules
xoxo

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